Dating seeing other people
If both get serious then I've got a problem on my hands.Who am I to think that these women are not playing the field as well? How stupid would I feel if I didn't play the field and later found out that one or both of these girls was seeing other guys too? Do you think it's a fair thing to do, or do you think it's risky/dangerous? Should I tell the women I'm seeing other people or keep it secret?So, I've been on 3 really good dates with this girl so far. We've both said that we feel like we've known each other for awhile. Because it's going so well, I'm curious as to wether or not she is dating other people.We talked for a few weeks on the phone for many hours a night before we met. I've never had this issue when dating someone else who was also dating around.Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... If thing go exclusive great, but you should be keeping your options open as well. I suppose you could call it insecurity, but ive known girls to give all the right indications and then go off with someone else.Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate. Things are going great, don't throw a wrench at the situation just yet. She goes out alot and has said in conversation that she's "dating". Since, I'm begininng to get emotionally invested, I dont want to have to deal with that.
but i agree with the other poster 3 dates is to soon to ask her to commit.I'm able to manage multiple friendships, because it's important to me, so maybe if relationships are important enough, I can pull it off.The biggest element of my quandary is deciding whether I should tell both girls about the fact that I want to see other people.If I do, it might work out better, but I could lose them both if they don't like the arrangement or if they find out if I tried to keep it from them.If I tell both women, I'm officially seeing other people.