Dating narcissistic men
That is EXACTLY the metaphor I use for private clients in describing the “tone” you want to capture in your initial contact.
” If your partner is all about themselves, always needing attention and affirmation, he or she may be a narcissist.
You may be on his Favorites list but he hasn’t had the opportunity to contact you yet.
So yes, Jane, don’t hesitate to contact that guy you’ve been eyeing. ” Presuming you’ve had a man write to you before, is it really all that interesting when he tells you that he thinks you’re cute?
It’s a bit counterintuitive, but if your first instinct is to compliment him and explain your value, you’re not demonstrating that you have any value.
Once you put a man on a pedestal, he’s automatically looking down at you.